Pura Vida!

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This is what everyone in Costa Rica say as a greeting, as a farewell, as a reminder to live each day to its fullest. It means “pure life,” and feels a hundred times more meaningful than the American equivalent of “woo-hoo” or “yeahhh!” I am convinced that because the Costa Rica people have this phrase in their every day life that it has also made them more efficient, happy, and fun.

 

Day 1:

We arrived, fuming at Spirit Airlines for charging $50 per second carry-on bag. Instead of being FREE, like any other airline does. Many people were tricked. Moral of the story: always check airline standards.

The flight was also 40 minutes late.

Day 2:

We trekked to a coffee plantation, where our knowledgeable guide showed us the coffee beans to the difference between good coffee and bad coffee.

Sadly this was all lost on my family since none of us drink coffee. Nevertheless, we happily bought a few bags of coffee with the most amazing aroma, and a bag of coffee covered dark chocolate that we devoured very quickly.

Our next trek were to the volcanoes, but sadly the fog covered everything. Fortunately, we experienced some beautifully spooky trails. Despite the Costa Rica summer, these trees appeared only as witchlike branches that stretched over the trail, allowing only a small lattice of sunlight to shine through.

In the afternoon we visited La Paz Waterfall Lodge, touted for being a great honeymoon location. (Mother teased me a bit about this.) The butterfly garden was the richest I’ve ever seen, anywhere.

There were also tons of hummingbirds. Adorable little things.

The waterfall trail was also the most amazing one I’ve been to. The winding steps took us to the side, then the top, and finally to the bottom of the giant waterfall.

Day 3:

We went white water rafting. No more words.

The ride was 4 hours long, going through a stretch of river 18 miles long. My sister, despite being too young for the adventure, was able to go through a series of happy coincidences. The tour itself was amazing, our guide being on the Costa Rica national team for white water rafting! They built up the rapids quit well, starting from easy level I and II’s to finally level III and IVs.

Day 4:

We went ziplining. The drive was a harrowing 1.5-turned-3 hours away, but the experience itself was amazing. The afternoon was followed by a river tour where our guide spotted monkeys from 100 feet away.

Day 5, 2am:

At the airport. Flight is delayed 40 minutes, again. Return home, collapse, and every…gets the flu.

All in all, it was an amazing start to the new year. Besides the mindless fun, I was opened up to yet another set of experiences that made me realize how lucky I am to be part of my family with my particular circumstances. It’s how my parents can arrange vacation time around mine. It’s how my sister is (mostly) obedient and fun to travel with. But most profoundly (maybe because now I have a job, and need to budget for things), the fact that we could pay for the trip — flight, hotel, tours, unexpected $150 in baggage fees — really struck me as a set of extremely fortunate circumstances.

To my parents, who have worked so hard these years. Pura vida!

Note: My favorite example for the limits of language on culture is the Australian Aboriginal people the Guugu Yimithirr. They do not have words for left and right. To refer to directions, they use the cardinals directions of north, east, west, south. They will turn east when navigating, and leave their keys on the southwest corner of the table.

HR vs Tech

My first day at DreamWorks started with a company-wide toast from CEO Jeffrey Katzenberg to the release of Madagascar 3. He welcomed the presence of an LA Laker Pau Gasol (who drove a Porsche to park in the front), wore the rainbow Madagascar 3 clown wig, and encouraged all to indulge in the company-provided champagne. It was quite an exciting start to my experience at DreamWorks.

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LA: First Impressions

There’s something about having too much free time that makes me less productive than if I had too much to do. I’ve been incredibly lazy while at home for the last three weeks, playing games with my sister and plain just playing games (Dragonvale…so many dragons hatched). But now that I’ve started work, I’m actually more inclined to do all these side projects that have been neglected in the three weeks of more than enough free time to complete them. This blog being one of them.

Thanks to the amazing chivalry and kindness of a good friend, I managed to arrive safely in LA despite flying into an airport that was a good 45 minutes away from the actual city. After settling into my sublet, my friend took me to Griffith Observatory to see the city. I was greeted by the lovely afternoon fog.

My friend pointed to the different areas we’d driven through while going from the faraway airport to the grocery store to where I was living…but since he pointed at every single direction it was a bit of a pointless exercise.

I really love all the mountains here. Florida is far too flat.

On Procrastination: Or How I Wasted 1.5hrs by Making an iPad Case

It’s funny how desperate the find gets for relief and change from normal routine under the stress of college and readings and impending psets. Today, my mind decided it wanted a new case for my new iPad. Inspired by the recent library sessions, I thought, hey! A book would make a perfect case for my iPad! My library buddy was not impressed. In the tones similar to when he tells me how my latest internet discovery was on reddit weeks ago, he shook his head and flatly said, it’s been done. You can buy tons of cases like that on Amazon!

Undeterred by this lack of enthusiasm towards my latest idea, I kept it in the back of my mind every time I pulled out my iPad to do a reading. Until finally, I had one reading too much, and my tired mind refused to fuse morphemes into meaningful sentences.

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Startup Fair

Was so fun today. I loved talking to all the start-ups, even if I wasn’t too interested in joining any of them. These are people who are truly passionate about their work, their projects — I’d love to find my passion and do the exact same thing.

Expectations

Somehow we started talking about expectations.

It started off playful, of course, with silly name-calling and ridiculous accusations that neither of us really meant. I don’t remember how we got to it, but things turned serious and he said you’ve met all my expectations so far so of course I asked him what were they?

His answer came after a short, weighted pause, and surprised me in being less a list of expectations, but a list of characteristics that described me. I didn’t buy it at first. No one perfectly meets every expectation on someone’s list! I could name you three things immediately why he’s not my girlhood image of Mr. Perfect.

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Playing with kids is the most understated cute quality in guys ever

There is something brilliant about this relationship in not only how happy he makes me feel; but also in how much fun it is to share him with those close to me. Never before have I been so eager to introduce someone to my friends and family.

Our dinner with my blockmates, my family at school, was the first affirmation of this new feeling. Not only did I feel fantastically loved by my friends (an entire panel, judging my prospective boyfriend?) but the way he fit perfectly with their sense of humor and ridiculousness was an extra bonus that delighted me to no end.

Telling my parents about him was also, surprisingly, not a chore. I had always thought I’d dread the talk, but it came so easily, and I even shared stories about him that made my mother laugh, which I took as a rare, subtle form of approval.

Last night, my sister and I were making origami while he was hanging out online. He started playing with my sister, making silly faces, bouncing around like a 5 year old. Then he started asking her Quiz Bowl questions, and we spent the next two hours, the three of us, geeking out on obscure facts from middle school, high school nerd competitions.

That’s it, said my heart to my mind. Thats what I want do every night.

Fall Colors

I am having problems processing all the happiness right now. This weekend was amazing in so many different ways. Good company, good scenery, exciting events coming ahead…loooove it. ♥

On Friday, my business board went out on an outing to beautiful Blue Hills, where we hiked among the falling leaves. The colors were absolutely stunning.

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A Very Long Post, on Tiananmen, the Chinese Government, and My Mother

I’m taking a class on the Tiananmen Massacre with Rowena He, a participant in herself. Her personality is the most bright, bubbly, cheerful teacher I’ve ever encountered in academia. She is also extremely personal with her stories, and has an amazing force and passion that’s very enrapturing.

The first assignment we had was to watch Tank Man, a PBS documentary on the Tiananmen Massacre. The first half, I watched with a sort of composed interest — until the part where a mother pleaded with a soldier, sobbing hysterically, regarding her son. I was working in the dhall,  and I must have had the most intense look on my face because I distinctly remember half-hearing my roommate shushing her boyfriend to leave her alone, can’t you see she’s working? When really, I was watching this documentary. Not work at all. Though the second part was on modern China and its economic trends, and was as boring as listening to a truck droll.

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In Which A Bad Day Makes Me Appreciate All The Little Things More

Doodle of an Angry But Not Really That Angry Day

I locked myself out of my room this morning. Twice. With a good, oh, thirty minutes between the two incidents. In addition, I have three hours of class straight from 11-2 (AKA LUNCH TIME), a meeting at 2:30 for undetermined time, section at 4, and mandatory meeting at 6. And Cambridge decided to rain.

The morning began innocuously enough. I woke up, as always. I turned on the snooze, as always. I decided against unnecessarily attending a 10am class which I am not enrolled in to sleep more, and instead actually go and pay attention to my 11am class. I decided to head to Greenhouse Cafe a little before said 11am class to get something to eat because actually attending this lecture meant I wouldn’t get food until 2. As soon as I reached Greenhouse and unenthusiastically picked out some Pop Tarts, I felt for my ID…only to find my little backpack pouch empty of its usual resident.

At this point I might have done an exaggeratedly angry fling of Pop-Tart back with its previous companions as I stomped out of Greenhouse. Also keep in the mind this is the second time in two days that I have left my ID.

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